Guidance

Hello RMI! I wanted to see if there is someone I can talk to- my situation is feeling more and more hopeless but I keep reading my books to help me be reminded that nothing is impossible with God. However, friends and family still say it's hopeless and that my husband's free will will be what leads him to divorce.

I am just so discouraged this week and need someone's guidance and prayers as I try to navigate the divorce proceedings moving forward and my husband's heart still very hard even after 7.5 months.
Thank you!
Gigi
We want to encourage Gigi to journal because we, as MM, know that is how GOD changed our lives and brought PEACE into our situations. We checked and sadly haven't gotten any journals, which is why we know, she is discouraged. Please minister by sharing your own experiences regarding journalling and try just one more time to encourage Gigi to begin her restoration journey.

✅ MM: Separation 7 Months

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Hello! My name is Gigi and I am currently going through separation with my husband and he has already filed for divorce. I have purchased “God can and will restore your marriage” and “By the word of their Testimony.”  I wanted to see how I can meet with an email partner! I would love to have someone to talk to about my peculiar situation! “God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage” is already saving me. I wish I found this sooner but I only got it about 2 weeks ago and we are already well into the separation of 7 months!

Thank you so much! I really look forward to hearing from you!

Respectfully,
Gigi

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10 thoughts on “Guidance”

  1. Hello beautiful Gigi that the Lord continues to help you in this walk. psss first of all you must focus on having that communion as our Beloved Husband your Maker because only He will help us move forward and that this desert is to prepare your heart first

    hola bella Gigi q El Señor te continúe ayudando en este caminar. psss primero q nada debes enfocarte en tener esa comunión como nuestro Amado Señor xq solo El nos ayudara avanzar y q este desierto es para preparar tu corazón primero

    1. Hello dear Gigi!! Thank you very much for writing to us, you asked a great question and you are very lucky because you will not have just one restoration journey companion but many through the blog https://encouragingwomen.org/ which is where we share how our Heavenly Husband is working on our restoration journeys, we also have weekly meetings through Zoom where we share about the wonders of our Husband. https://encouragingwomen.org/fellowship/

      You mentioned you’re going through divorce process so my Beloved guided me to share this course with you https://hopeatlast.com/c3/facing-divorce-course/ and encourage you to continue with the RRR restoration, renewal and reconstruction courses https://hopeatlast.com/rrr/ that will give you all the bases for your new relationship with your Heavenly Husband and of course for your restoration.

      1. I can cry so many tears right now- thank you so much for all the encouragement and I cannot believe I got a response from you all! I didn’t think I would! I feel so grateful- as if God is seeking me to stand for my marriage when everyone has told me “you’re crazy, it’s done.” I ordered “A Wise Woman” and cannot wait to receive it!!

  2. Hello my dearest Gigi, like Anastasia shared you have many encouraging women who will encourage you on the blog.

    BUT you do have one very Special Encouraging Partner, and that is your Heavenly Husband who is longing to hear from you and who wants to help you and guide you.
    “Yet the Lord longs to be gracious to you; therefore he will rise up to show you compassion. For the Lord is a God of justice. Blessed are all who wait for him!”

    Get alone with Him in your prayer closet and pour your heart out to Him, then let Him confort you. I love this lesson (https://loveatlast.org/ryr/c6/) because it helped me so much to realize I only need Him to guide me. He alone can give you true comfort and all the answers you need right now. Seek Him with all your heart and “Call to Me, and I will answer you, and show you great and [a]mighty things, which you do not know.’” Jeremiah 33:3

    “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.” Psalm 32:8

    And to answer your question: Hi again! I have tried to find where I can write journals and cannot seem to find it! That’s why I haven’t written any- I will keep searching!

    Thank you for all you do with your ministry! It has been saving me.

    EACH lesson has a JOURNAL at the end of the lesson.

    1. Well done, Adina! Agreeing with Anastasia and also how you shared a specific lesson that confirms who is our most faithful and all-knowing Partner, our Beloved.

  3. This assignment is CLOSED. THANK YOU!

    I hope next time more of you will have the opportunity to minister.

    To Gigi we replied with the link to this post and lovingly said…

    Moving forward, we will need to see you journalling some of the courses the IOU Ministers recommended before we can reply to any more emails or post anything else—if not, we are doing you more harm than good. Journaled courses will heal you and, most importantly, encourage and teach you to go to the One who has the answers and why He’s led you here to us.

    Much love

  4. Gigi este viaje es un camino estrecho pero es el mejor camino, te puedo decir que nuestro amado es maravilloso, y el nunca llega tarde, lee y haz los diarios de enfrentando el divorcio, y haz de nuestro amado tu verdadero y único amor, el es un consejero maravillo, estoy también pasando por el proceso del divorcio y agradezco a mi amado por todo, por este curso y todos los recursos que aquí tenemos, y gracias debemos siempre darle a el, porque todo nos lleva a su brazos, entrega todo a el, y continua los cursos de Renovar y Reconstruir del ministerio y haz los diarios que es donde tu viertes tu corazón al señor.
    Todo lo puedes en cristo que te fortalece.

  5. Hi again! I have tried to find where I can write journals and cannot seem to find it! That’s why I haven’t written any- I will keep searching!

    Thank you for all you do with your ministry! It has been saving me.

    EACH lesson has a JOURNAL at the end of the lesson.

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