💔MM: Joan in Kenya

Name:
Joan in Kenya
What language do you speak?
Swahili, English
I'm here:
Seeking restoration for my marriage.
What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation.
Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me.
Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?"
No
How did you find our ministry?
I went on google trying to find help for my situation and an article on Encouraging woman came up. So in my quest for more i ended up here.
Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship?
My marriage has been going through difficulties. There has been series of abandonment, arguing, lack of communication and openness. I felt rejected and because of the strife, I asked my husband to leave because i thought it would make him happy because i saw how unhappy he was staying with me. he therefore left two months ago and leaves in another state. He doesn't call.

The last time i called him, he sounded very angry as i was pleading with him to forgive me and return home. However he said i threw him out and he wanted to start anew. He even hang up on me and told me to get off the phone if i had nothing else to say.

My daughter is with him for the school holidays but will be returning home in a couple of days. My son however did not go to see him but stayed home with me. My husband complains that i argue a lot and will not listen to what he says. He holds on to the past and has accused me of infidelity which was not true. several times i have found that he has been spying on my phone and also had a tracker placed in my car. I really want my marriage back, i am in pain and my children too. please help me.

Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him.
Oh God of all flesh, Have mercy on me. i leaned on my understanding and asked my husband to leave instead of coming to you for help. Now i am in this place where i don't know how my tomorrow will be. I am sorrowful, tears have become my food, the guilt inside overwhelms me and I don't want divorce. I ask that you may help me change and become the suitable helper for my Husband. Please help my husband look towards me with favour and let the pain in his heart ease that he may find it in his heart to forgive me and return home. this i ask in the name of Jesus.
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No, I am not in the position to help anyone at the moment.
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Before commenting, remember to:

    1. Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
    2. Keep it SHORT.
    3. Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
    4. Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
    5. After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
      “Every fact is to be confirmed by the testimony of two or three witnesses.” 2 Corinthians 13:1
    6. When YOU are the final 3 Cord of comments supporting o/o/o/ this bride, please CLOSE this session and paste this at the end:

"Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED."

4 thoughts on “💔MM: Joan in Kenya”

  1. Dear Joan, welcome, I want you to know that we understand every feeling you share with us, but have faith in the Lord that there is hope in Him. Although it may seem impossible to see it this way, this crisis is being used to bless you since it is a call from the Lord to restore your life.
    To begin, you can start studying the following course that will help you apply principles to your life that will bring blessing: https://hopeatlast.com/c1/
    I also have it in my heart to share with you the following page that will help you treat your emotions correctly: https://hopeatlast.com/crisis-corner/
    My Beloved, I understand the feelings of guilt you share, but take heart because I know the Lord will use it for your good and use it to restore you. He, through this crisis, is only calling your attention to order your life, my precious, I leave you the following promise that HE left in my heart: “For godly sorrow is not to be suddend of, but worketh repentance unto salvation; but the sorrow of the world workseth death.” 2C710

  2. Dear Joan, I understand your pain and frustration, in my case my husband argued that there was no longer love between us and once I discovered the adultery I left my home, by the grace of God months later I found this ministry that showed me the whole truth. about my role as a wife, mother and daughter, and showed me the way to follow so as not to make more mistakes that would take me further from the path of restoration. For His glory He restored my marriage, but much more beautiful than that, He gave me a new and wonderful relationship with the Lord, which freed me from spending my life needing love from others by finding in Him the inexhaustible source of love.

    I agree with Perla that he brought you to bless you! This trip is wonderful! Knowing the Lord in intimacy changes everything in your life! Like Perla, I recommend course 1 https://hopeatlast.com/c1/ which was the one that gave me all the key principles for restoration as well as course 2 https://hopeatlast.com/c2/ which has many practical principles!

    Be sure to visit the blog because you will find encouragement there every day: https://encouragingwomen.org/

    “When the Lord takes pleasure in anyone’s way, he causes his enemies to make peace with them.” P167

  3. Dear Joan, we understand you and feel your pain because we went through this too. Just as dear Perla and Anastasia advised you, I join them and ask that you please begin your Restoration Journey with course 1 https://hopeatlast.com/c1/.

    This is how I began to know the Lord and have a relationship with Him and where I learned His valuable principles for restoration and eventually found the Abundant Life He has for all of us.

    Also read daily testimonies from encouraging women on the blog: https://encouragingwomen.org/

    And remember dear “For nothing will be impossible with God.” L137

    Much love

  4. “Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED.”

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