| Name: |
| Jasmine |
| Country: |
| US |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Divorce filed and my husband does NOT live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| No |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| Hello, I did not read the entire book as of yet. Almost completed. It was on YouTube that I found this ministry |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| Me and my husband were married since 18. We joined the military and had “normal” worldly problems that seemed fine. However, a few days before I 10 year anniversary he wanted to separate and filed for divorce. Of course I tried pleading with him that I will change and where did this come from. My husband is a great man, we’re not perfect but this is not like him. I later found out he was talking to someone else by looking through his Apple Watch. The road is tough and the pain is there everyday. We’re still close and best friends. However , the principle of letting go I’m a bit confused on. Does letting go mean just stop talking all together with him or just getting him out my head or calling/texting him? He still wants to remain best friends. We also do not have any children. He’s attempting to move to another state and said that I’m perfect for him and he doesn’t know why he’s feeling this way. He also told me that he can’t come back to me because he feels guilty for putting me through everything and what he did. However I told him I forgive him and he has forgave me as well. I’m not sure if my debt is playing a part in this but he said it’s not and that it doesn’t define me and that wasn’t the issue for him leaving. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| Father God, I’m hurting. Please help me. Please talk to me. Please hold me. Please take the pain away. Please just tell me it’s going to be ok. I’m so sorry for not being the wife/helpmeet you wanted me to be. I’m so sorry. I did not know anything about your word but now I know the mistake it made and basically pushed my husband away. Please protect him. He doesn’t know what this is about as well. Please just be with me. Please help me. I need you soo much. I feel like I’m breaking. Sometimes I don’t hear you and my dreams I don’t understand. Last night I felt like you were speaking to me in my dream giving me signs that you will restore my marriage however I need strength to keep going. I feel like I want to be isolated as this does hurt me as well but sometimes I feel like I need to be alone to just be with you. My family i |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time. |
| Are you interested in learning how you can help other women who are in a marriage crisis as a Marriage Minister? CLICK on the IMAGE that describes you right now. |
| Yes, I sense this is why this crisis happened to me. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
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Before commenting, remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
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Dear jasmine. I’m so glad He led you here to us when you searched “seek and you shall find” and that you began reading https://encouragingbookstore.com/women-resources/wrym/
If you ever have any doubt about what God can do just invest in these ebooks https://encouragingbookstore.com/women-packets/wott-full-series-combo-packet-paperback-ebooks/
Once you know GOD will do what He promised then you can focus on the REAL reason He led you here.
https://loveatlast.org/
Once you begin pursuing after your Husband your Maker
“For your Husband is your Maker, Whose name is the Lord of hosts;
And your Redeemer Who is called the God of all the earth.
“’For the Lord has called YOU,
Like a wife forsaken and grieved in spirit,
Even like a wife of one’s youth when she is rejected,’
Says your God.”
Once you pursue Him everything will change. Your heart will heal and even your hopeless marriage will change but that’s when you must not turn back and put your marriage or earthly husband EH first or He’ll once again turn hearts back and you’ll be a loathing to them/him once again.
https://biblehub.com/psalms/88-8.htm
https://biblehub.com/psalms/88-18.htm
Lastly, after RYM this is the best book a course you should journal https://hopeatlast.com/c3/facing-divorce-course/
Hopefully you will join us as an IOU student. I can tell you would be a perfect fit Jasmine https://rmiou.com/htgs/
Welcome dear Jasmine. Honey, even if your husband wants your marriage to end in divorce, almost all of us have been in that situation and we too have tried to fight for our marriages, get in our husbands’ way and stop them. But we soon realized that nothing was working the way we expected and the best we could do was get out of their way and let them go, because then the Lord would have a clear path to access them. That’s why the Bible says.
“Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked, nor stands in the way of sinners…” https://biblehub.com/psalms/1-1.htm.
Here’s a lesson to help you understand about “letting go of your earthly husband”: https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d15-the-freedom-of-letting-go/.
You also told us that you are suffering, and that you need strength to carry on, and we understand your lack of strength because when our marriages fell apart, we also desperately wanted to obey God and be able to fix things, but our husbands said it was over. But we want to share the wonderful truth with you that you will have your chance!! Because no matter what your husband says or what he is doing, no matter what is going on around you, we have His promise “Many are the plans in the heart of man, but the purpose of the Lord prevails.” https://biblehub.com/proverbs/19-21.htm.
And His purpose is for your marriage to be restored! Honey, God is in control!! All you have to do is rest patiently in Him as He wins for you the victory of a restored marriage.
He is directing me to share with you and encourage you, dear friend, who says you are suffering, and feeling weakened and perhaps even hopeless, to find that Hope that we all find Finally – to listen to the “Be Encouraged” audios that are available in our courses! I’m going to leave the 1st of them here and I hope that just as they were wonderful for me, when my heart was still broken 💔 it will also be for you, my dear friend! https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d6-be-encouraged-classic-1-1/
Much love to you!🌷
Dear precious Jasmine, I am so sorry for all the hurt you are going through. Please keep on seeking our wonderful Lord, because this is your divine appointment with Him and I know He is going to be the One that changes your life and He will be the One to bring Healing – https://hopeatlast.com/mho/
I want to encourage you to do Course 1 (How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage) – https://hopeatlast.com/c1/
“Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; For You are with me…”You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You anoint my head with oil; My cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life; And I will dwell in the house of the Lord Forever.” P23:3-6
“Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED.”