Dear Atarah
As already said in my questionaire I have never been legally married only done traditional wedding. We have been together for 12 years with 2 daughters. The father of my children walk away from us on January 2022 and got engaged in September 2022 with the woman he got involved with. All these time we were not talking nor supporting us and I never asked for anything.
Last week I receive I call from a certain church that he wants to get married this coming weekend and they wanted me there because they heard that he has two kids. He was the one who gave them my number .
I went together with my uncle and told them that YES I have two kids with him he is my husband but he has chosen to do his heart desires and I won't block him the wedding should proceed.
They asked if we have any legal paper for separation my uncle said No because he is the one who said he doesn't want me and our family just let it go
At first I panicked and fear was all over me when I saw him and his fiancee but them it all went away went I remember that God has not given me the spirit of Fear but of power l, Love and sound mind. And all went well, he didn't say any word and he act as if he doesn't know me.
Before going there we talk and he told me that he has moved on and I should not hold his wedding because he wants to settle down with that woman. He said he is a born again Christian now and has follow her to the new church where they worship now and said he has forgiven me. To me I didn't believe it and I told him he is lying
Was I wrong with how I told the church people that he is my husband and also how i rebuke him about that he is a saved person now?
Thanks
HLM back to see if there’d been any comments and I marvel at the beauty and easy but also DISCRETION of posting MEQ or MM questions sent to Hope@
At first I thought Yvonne might have been led to pause this post for the appointed time—but then HLM to LOGIN and only then can you see the PRIVATE posts on the blog 📌 remarkable 🤩
Hello Joyce,
We just wanted you to know that we got the question from Him and are SG “seeking God” to see how He wants us to answer to you. We also want you to know our main goal is to help you learn BD for yourself, so you’ll never settle for less than the Best.
God is never in a hurry (the enemy is), so we will wait to hear from God and we have scheduled 3 days or 72 hours to give you time to hear from God.
* If you take this time and resist the urge to ask someone else, asking only Him (as we are doing on His behalf), we guarantee that what we share with you will be a confirmation of what He has already told you.
We want to encourage you (and all of our brides) to take this question (and every question you have) to the Lord. If you always ask Him, you will build your relationship with HIM, not us or anyone else, which will further your Restoration Journey.
Much love.
Hi darling. I returned after waiting for my Beloved to show me what I could share with you in the situation you are in, and directed me to the Course Two lesson for your marital status https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d8-never-legally-married / I trust that this lesson will confirm the answer that He has given you in intimacy as you sought Him with all your heart.
It also reminded me that every woman needs to know that above every earthly man He is our Heavenly Husband https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d22-heavenly-husband/ and is more than capable of meeting our need to be loved, understood, heard, sustained, provided for and strengthened…etc. He is your Husband and is your source of ALL things because all good things come from Him. Take His hand and be His Bride: https://amoralfin.com/amoralfin-inicio/su-novia/ And find your abundant life https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/
Every good thing given and every perfect gift is from above; it comes down from the Father of lights [the Creator and Sustainer of the heavens], in whom there is no variation [no rising or setting] or shadow [a]cast by His turning [for He is perfect and never changes]. J117
Hello Joyce,
I have read your MEQ and what Anastasia shared with you. I SG and He confirmed to me what she already shared with you. I just want to add a few things.
The best thing you can do right now is to let go (https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d15-the-freedom-of-letting-go/) and surrender your situation in the Lord’s capable hands. During this time pursue your Heavenly Husband (https://loveatlast.org/his-bride/) because He is alluring you (https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/chapter-3-the-love-of-my-life/).
As His bride He will fill every void you have in your heart and He will love you with an Everlasting Love. He wants to give you the Abundant Life right now. You can leave the pain and sorrow behind knowing that He have a wonderful future for you and your children. Run to Him and spend time with Him, pour your heart out to Him and only Him and let Him comfort you and speak kindly to you. Seek Him alone to guide you along this journey, only He knows the answers you need right now.
And to help your children during this time, you can also visit https://homegrownministries.com/
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11-29
“The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” (Exodus 14:14)
“Yet the Lord longs to be gracious to you; therefore he will rise up to show you compassion. For the Lord is a God of justice. Blessed are all who wait for him!” (Isaiah 30:18)
This assignment is CLOSED. THANK YOU!
I hope next time more of you will have the opportunity to minister.
I don’t know how I was just lead here and why I am just now seeing these post about answering the MEQ. When I go to the IOU blog it leads me to EW (which I know all is now combined) but I still am unable to find this post there. I had to go back to my history and find it just to post this comment.