We received this Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire from Yaquelin in the USA:
I'm here:
Seeking restoration for my marriage.
What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation.
Married and my husband lives with me.
Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?"
Yes
How did you find our ministry?
Atravez de internet
Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship?
Despues de 22 anos de relacionamento, tres hijos, mi marido dice que no me ama mas que quiere se separar de mim. Rentou su proprio apartamento y estava con una mujer que havia venido de su pais, pero no havia salido de casa completamente porque esperava el momento conveniente para hablar con los ninos. Despue de un mes asi decisio voltar para cas, entrego la renta y pense que todo seria restaurado, mas no fue asi, pasado unos dias vi que continua se comunicando con aquella mujer y esta muy frio conmigo. Me dijo que realmente queria se separar de mi y que lo haria. continua en casa pero ya no me toca mas ni me trata como esposa, apaenas como una amiga.
After 22 years of relationship, three children, my husband says he doesn't love me anymore that he wants to separate from me. He rented his own apartment and was with a woman who had come from her country, but she had not left the house completely because she was waiting for the right time to talk to the children. After a month of this, he decided to return home, he handed over the rent and I thought that everything would be restored, but it was not like that, after a few days I saw that he continues to communicate with that woman and he is very cold to me. She told me that she really wanted to separate from me and that she would do it. She is still at home but she no longer touches me or treats me like a wife, just like a friend.
Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him.
Padre en estos dias de dolor solo he buscado ayuda en Ti. No se como decirte lo que siento, se que estas de mi lado cuidandome y dando fuerzas para continuar, sin Ti no huviera conseguido. Pido a mi Dios que restaure mi casamiento, se que Dios todo lo puede, se que solo Dios puede transformar vidas, transforma mi vida, transforma la vida de mi marido, de mi familia. Que despues de todo esto pasar digamos al mundo Dios lo hizo, y si lo hizo conmigo lo puede hacer con otras mujeres tambien. Te amo Dios, eres todo lo que tengo. Gracias por ser mi Padre, gracias por estar siempre ahi cuidando de mi y guiandome, gracias por el processo de restauracion que estas llevando mi casamiento, gracias porque estas hablando para Francisco, gracias porque Tu voluntad se esta cumpliendo en nuestras vidas, gracias porque veremos la belleza que haras en nuestro casamiento. Pido que esa mujer que entro en la vida de mi marido pueda encontrar su propio marido y dejar el mio en paz, pido para que tu coloques en nuestra realacion todo en el lugar, que nosotros nos amemos, respetemos, cuidemos, admiremos, deseamo como nunca. En nombre de Jesus. Amen
Father, in these days of pain I have only sought help in You. I don't know how to tell you what I feel, I know that you are on my side taking care of me and giving me the strength to continue, without you I wouldn't have made it. I ask my God to restore my marriage, I know that God can do everything, I know that only God can transform lives, transform my life, transform the life of my husband, my family. After all this happens, let's tell the world that God did it, and if he did it with me, he can do it with other women too. I love you God, you are all I have. Thank you for being my Father, thank you for always being there taking care of me and guiding me, thank you for the restoration process that you are carrying out my marriage, thank you because you are speaking for Francisco, thank you because Your will is being fulfilled in our lives, thank you because we will see the beauty you will do at our wedding. I ask that this woman who came into my husband's life can find her own husband and leave mine alone, I ask that you put everything in place in our relationship, that we love each other, respect each other, care for each other, admire each other, I wish like never before. In the name of Jesus. Amen
In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you:
Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time.
Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate. The lady coming to us for help, is Spanish speaking, so if that is your language, your encouragement will help a lot.
Example:
Before commenting, remember to:
- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- When we see a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ her, we will reply to her email. Thank you!!
Hola mi querida Yaquelin, yo comprendo mucho el dolor y la tristeza que estás sintiendo. Nuestro Amado Señor puso en mi corazón darte esta promesa, “Cercano está el Señor a los quebrantados de corazón, y salva a los abatidos de espíritu.” Salmos 34:18.
En nuestra vida encontramos varios desafíos y dificultades, pero cuando lo buscamos a Él con todo nuestro corazón nuestra vida nunca va a ser la misma. Esta situación que estás pasando es la oportunidad perfecta para que Nuestro Señor transforme tu vida y la de tus hijos. ¡Van a iniciar un viaje de restauración increíble!
Quiero recomendarte esta lección para que te llenes de esperanza: https://esperanzaalfin.com/cursos/c1/tenga-fe/, este viaje comienza cuando entregamos todo a él y confiamos plenamente en sus promesas, sin importar lo que vean nuestros ojos.
También esta lección que me dio mucha esperanza y consuelo: https://esperanzaalfin.com/cursos/c2/dia-15-la-libertad-de-soltar/, confiar en el Señor para todo e ir solo a Él nos cambia la vida.
Yaquelin, nuestros hijos son parte importante de este viaje por eso quiero recomendarte los devocionales para niños para que Nuestro Amado también les de el amor y la paz que ellos necesitan: https://elanimador.com/mi-querido-retono-devocional-diario/.
Hay esperanza en el Señor, Él es el Señor de lo imposible y ama restaurar nuestras vidas!
Te invito a leer los testimonios de mujeres alrededor del mundo para que sepas que nuestro Amado siempre estará contigo:
https://elanimador.com/
¡Ten ánimo!
Hello my dear Yaquelin, I very much understand the pain and sadness you are feeling. Our Beloved Lord put it on my heart to give you this promise, “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and he saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalms 34:18.
In our life, we encounter various challenges and difficulties, but when we seek Him with all our hearts our life will never be the same. This situation you are going through is the perfect opportunity for Our Lord to transform your life and that of your children. You are about to begin an incredible restoration journey!
I want to recommend this lesson to you so that you can be filled with hope: https://esperanzaalfin.com/cursos/c1/tenga-fe/, this journey begins when we give everything to him and fully trust in His promises, no matter what we see with our eyes.
Also, this lesson gave me a lot of hope and comfort: https://esperanzaalfin.com/cursos/c2/dia-15-la-libertad-de-soltar/, trusting in the Lord for everything, and going only to Him changes our life.
Yaquelin, our children are an important part of this journey which is why I want to recommend devotionals for children so that Our Beloved also gives them the love and peace that they need: https://elanimador.com/mi-querido-retono-devocional- diary/.
There is hope in the Lord, He is the Lord of the impossible and he loves to restore our lives!
I invite you to read the testimonies of women around the world so that you know that our Beloved will always be with you:
https://elanimador.com/
Take heart!
Dear, I was once in a similar situation. The first time eh said he loved me but wasn’t “in love” with me anymore and left, the second time I told him to leave. There was another woman both times who my eh conversated with for a while even after he came home. Before restoration, I also did not appreciate my husband and was always complaining. I was full of pain, sadness & bitterness. It’s hard but know that the Lord has all the control and with Him ALL things are possible.
Start our courses (https://hopeatlast.com/rrr/), pour your heart into your Lesson Forms and be sure to journal.
“..your beauty should come from within you—the beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit. This beauty will never disappear, and it is worth very much to Him” 1P3:4
Before my restorations the chapter from the RYM and Wise Woman Book helped me tremendously. https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-10-chapter-5-won-without-a-word/ & https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-8-chapter-3-a-gentle-and-quiet-spirit/
His love has the power to heal everything. Let Him mold you and transform you.
Hola mi querida dama, bienvenida al Ministerio, entiendo el proceso por el que estas pasando, y todos los sentimientos encontrados de enojo, tristeza e impotencia. Me toca mucho el corazón porque yo pasé exactamente por lo mismo, el sentimiento de abandono es realmente doloroso. Sin embargo el hecho de centrarme demasiado en ese dolor, solo hacía que yo me envolviera en victimizaciones que solo me lastimaron mas, empeorando la situación.
En definitiva, preciosa, tu corazón necesita sanar, y la Palabra de nuestro Señor es efectiva para eso: “Porque la palabra de Dios es viva y eficaz, y más cortante que toda espada de dos filos; y penetra hasta partir el alma y el espíritu, las coyunturas y los tuétanos, y discierne los pensamientos y las intenciones del corazón.” H412
Por ello querida, para actuar conforme a la Palabra del Señor es necesario que seas lavada con Su Palabra, verás cómo poco a poco vas a ir sanando cada herida que hoy no puedes soportar.
Para empezar tu viaje de restauración, te invito a empezar con: https://esperanzaalfin.com/cursos/c1/ y por favor te animo a realizar un diario que te ayudará a enfocarte en cada Palabra que el Señor te da, además por el momento me encantaría dejarte con la siguiente lección: https://esperanzaalfin.com/rincon-de-crisis/
Mi querida, comparto esta Palabra para ti:”Vengan a mí todos ustedes que están cansados y agobiados; yo les daré descanso.” M1128
Ánimo mi Amada, el dolor permitido por el Señor, tiene el potencial para ser transformado en bendición, búscalo con todo el corazón.
“Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED.”